| Most of us know that success comes in only five easy steps-1) Determine the goal of your life, which you want to achieve.
2) Hard work with a positive mind set.
3) Do not let other people discourage you.
4) Learn from your mistakes and do not blame others for your mistakes.
5) Do not stop trying after a failure until you achieve success.
Looks a breezy walk towards your goal, then why most people falter. The answer is very simple. Most people do exact opposite of the above-mentioned five steps. Here we are not going back again in the jaded discussion of how to achieve success and how to avoid a lame life. Leading an unsuccessful life is no easy task. There is a lots of stress factor involved in it. It can make you hollow from inside and even may change your personality and thinking. It pushes you towards a fall in your approach towards life.
However, here is a question that, can we enjoy being unsuccessful? People actually enjoy their lives being unsuccessful without realizing it. How? People say that success is full of joy but, a state of unsuccessfulness can also be enjoyed. Let us have a look on how you enjoy being unsuccessful while following these steps—
State of No-Action:
People enjoy being in a state of no-action, they simply talk. It is a state of immense pleasure where any form of pain stays away from you. You sit idle and make castles in air, which is the most easiest and enjoyable thing to do. Just think how much agony a successful person has to face while being in state of action.
Being reluctant:
This is the most pleasurable position in which an unsuccessful person falls in. Just think how much pain you avoid by avoiding a disciplined life. Success demands consistency in what you do; a proper schedule in your daily routine and determination to remain firm on it. An unsuccessful person pleasures himself by avoiding all these things by following a simple phrase- 'Who will do!'
Avoidance of passion:
To attain success in any field, passion is the most important factor. However, it requires devotion. Don’t you think how monotonous a life becomes because of it? An unsuccessful person enjoys different colors of life and his life never becomes monotonous.
Undefined ideals:
Ask a successful person that how she/he achieved success in their lives. They all will have predefined answers to match their success. Usually, you will find a monotonous answer by them about their success in life that, how they defined their ideas to achieve their goal and how they achieved it. But ask an unsuccessful person what are their ideals. You can expect any answer from them. There may be a surprise for you. There will not be pre-defined answers; on the contrary answers are created by them.
Fear-factor:
Normally it has been said that to achieve something you have to take risk in your life. But why to risk anything. An unsuccessful person will simply reject in risking anything. There is nothing better and more enjoyable than being in a chill-out state and avoid unusual stress.
Why to burden self with mistakes?
It should be in your habit that when you make mistakes than you must correct it next time by taking full responsibilities of it. Such people in the end attain success. An unsuccessful person too opts the same. They take responsibilities for the first time, than for second time and even for the third time. After this, they realize that if same mistakes are happening repeatedly, then the fault does not reside in them, it is somewhere else. Then why to burden self by mistakes which other do. It takes away the happiness of life.
Life is uncertain, what lies in the womb of future no one knows. Our primary goal must be to attain happiness. It makes our life beautiful. Success or failure is two subjective things. Criteria for success vary individual to individual. In the same way, it may vary for failure, but it does not mean that it cannot be enjoyed.
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